I emailed 9Marks and asked them for any information on leaving a church, though they did not answer my question directly, he did provide me with the following:
Quick Tips: How to Find a Good Church
1. Pray
2. Seek counsel from a godly pastor (or other elders).
3. Keep your priorities straight.
Ø The gospel must be truly affirmed, clearly preached, and faithfully lived out. A serious lack in any of these expressions of the gospel is very dangerous.
Ø The preaching must be faithful to Scripture, personally challenging, and central to the congregation's life. You will only grow spiritually where Scripture is treated as the highest authority.
Ø Also very important, consider how the church regulates baptism, the Lord's Supper, church membership, church discipline, and who has the final say in decision making.
Ø In short, read chapters 5 to 13 in this book! (Mark Dever's 9 Marks of a Healthy Church)
4. Ask yourself diagnostic questions, such as…
Ø If you're single, would you want to find a spouse who has been brought up under this church's teaching?
Ø If you're a parent, what picture of Christianity will your children see in this church, something distinct or something a lot like the world?
Ø Would you be happy to invite a non-Christian to this church? That is, would they both clearly hear the gospel and see lives consistent with it? Does the church have a heart for welcoming and reaching non-Christians?
Ø Is this new church a place that you can minister and serve?
5. Consider geography. Would the church's physical proximity with your home encourage or discourage frequent involvement and service? If you're moving to a new area, try to locate a good church home before you agree to move or buy a house.
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